Why Do We Fall in Love?

Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people. So why do people fall in love? For me as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness. One of the ways we have this is through our relationships with other people. I admire of what he is......
I have found that two important characteristics to him, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. But exception to that I love him of being caring and loving me.These attributes are things that I learn about someone from knowing him over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life,sweetness,caring are especiall in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship. Maybe the attaction for him is such some what different not only be friend but a special friend of mine. I hide the fact at all times to him, exactly because we meet in a wrong time in a wrong place but different world.
This is interesting, funny but its true; we have found this feeling, contradict to this is conscience in forming romantic relationships. However, being fall in love doesn't mean I will allow myself to be part of this horrible feelings. Only this someone is be part of my life.
I pray to be physically powerful at all times, beside of these unpleasant feeling I have, I make myself countenace the reality of my life. Life will go on....Be happy....be strong....brave....Funny...
Thank you....

Admiration

Do you enjoy being admired? Of course we do. I all do. After all, I have an innate desire to be admired. I want to be respected and held in high regard. Since I all feel that way, my statement comes as no surprise. However, what I may overlook is that we have an equally strong desire to admire and respect others. How can I have such a desire and be unaware of it?
The admiration of others is a mark of maturity. When should free of emotional baggage and in control of our lives, we come to accept, appreciate, and admire others.

Admiring others doesn't mean holding in awe the rich and powerful. Rather, it means holding in reverence the benevolent, the peacemaker, and the compassionate. But Why this admiration goes that someday resulting the love that make us a source of happiness.A grateful heart is full of joy, while an ungrateful one is full of bitterness?

When we accept life we grow to appreciate it, then admire it, later revere it, and finally venerate it. An accepting heart blooms into a heart of love. And it is love that brings clarity of vision, which allows us to penetrate into the hearts of others. It dispels the clouds of prejudice and narrow-mindedness and allows us to learn from others. True admiration, then, is not about holding some people, special people,special friend, in high regard. Instead, it is about holding everyone in esteem. For when we look into the eyes of another, we behold our own reflection.